Buddy Takes Offense at Never Ever Being Inquired About Her Past
by Abigail Van Buren
DEAR ABBY: 6 months ago, i acquired straight right back in contact with a youth buddy whom married at 17 and relocated away. She’s got a lot of family members drama, a lot of it due to her alcoholism (which she claims is really a total outcome of PTSD).
Recently, she explained We have harmed her and I also’m a friend that is terrible since we have reconnected, i’ve never ever once asked her about her past and also the ordeals she is experienced. Abby, she covers by herself constantly. We never ever thought it absolutely was required to ask her concerning the past because she never ever shuts up about this. We have attempted to be a great listener, but I do not think she’s made the most useful life choices, and I also wouldn’t like to confront her with my views on what she has all messed up her life.
I do not concern individuals about their past, truthfully. I’m when they desire to talk about it, they’re going to take it up by themselves. Read more